Being Present
Be present. It’s a phrase that I saw in many blog posts as a resolution for the new year. After reading some of these posts, I decided that it was probably something that I needed to work on as well. In an effort to be a better wife and mother, I need to be more present. I need to put the phone down and play with the girls when they want to play. After all, most of my emails aren’t particularly urgent, and I only have a few more years before my kids hate me.
Yesterday, I decided to start fresh. Once everyone had finished breakfast, I got on YouTube and searched for a yoga video for beginners. Naturally, I just clicked the first one, which was 20 minutes of awesome. I thought the girls would join in like they’ve done in the past, but obviously, nothing in my life ever works out like I think it will. Even with children and animals crawling over me, I felt mostly relaxed and refreshed.
This morning, I’ll read a few blogs before doing some yoga again and hopefully starting the whole routine over. Only this time, I need to go to the commissary to pick up something for dinner. That should be loads of fun.
They’ll always be my babies, but they’ll only actually be babies for a little bit longer. I have to make an effort to let go of outside things, and focus more on my girls.
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This is awesome, and this is also my goal for this year. Just have fun…stop the day to day planning! I am glad you were able to throw a shower in there, that is one of the best luxuries! haha
I’ve been feeling the same way. I’m trying to be more present too. 🙂
I need to do the same thing! Today, at the doctor, the ped. was talking about L’s sleep issues, and how maybe I should at least cut his naptimes down, if not eliminate them all together. My first thought was “But thats the only quiet time to myself I have ALL DAY LONG!” and then I thought “But they’ll only be this little and fun for a little while longer!” Good for you, Mama!
This is really awesome! 🙂
I know what you mean. I try to set aside time daily for my kids.
Aww this is a great post! I need to be more present as well. Those dang phones suck you in! That’s a great idea for the new year. I gotta jump on the present train too.
This is always a great idea! Too bad my cat won’t appreciate me setting aside time for her 😉
I love being unplugged! When I was home with my parents, I put away the electronics just to spend time with them. Once the husband gets back, time with my parents will be shared with my husband too. I know they miss it when it was just me time. Haha!
Being present is something I struggle with, too. Sometimes it’s challenging to put the technology away. Best of luck to you as you work on being more present. 🙂