Birthday Parties

My mama heart was so sad over the weekend. Against my better judgement, we threw a birthday party for Veronica on Saturday, to which only two friends showed up. She had a good time, but there was certainly a sense of disappointment. You could see little eyes constantly glancing in the direction of the door, checking to see if more friends were arriving.

We were still new to Kentucky and living in a hotel when V’s birthday rolled around last year. Instead of even attempting a party, we went to Panera for dinner (her choice) and picked up some cupcakes on the way back to our hotel. This year, she was adamant about having a party, so I agreed.

Even before sending the invitations to school, I had my hopes pretty low. Although, apparently not low enough. I’m not sure if it’s the military community, or just the norm in 2018, but no one can be bothered to go to parties anymore. I even wrote this post a few years ago about a party we attended.

We sent about 15 invitations to school and heard back from three parents. One of the parents that said yes, didn’t even show up come party day. It was disappointing.

On a positive note, party setup was great. We showed up to the local arcade place, paid, and the employees took care of everything. We had a “party pro” assigned to us who did everything from collecting shoes so the girls could bounce and skate, to serving pizza, to making a guest list that included gifts from each guest.

If we had more friends in the area, that would be my go-to spot for every single party. But I think that until we find that great core group of friends like we had in Hawaii, parties will be on pause. I’ve been told that our future neighborhood is a pretty tight-knit community, so I’m hopeful.

Parents, future parents, grandparents, whatever. When you get these invites, go. Please. Maybe not every single time, but when your schedule allows. Even if you can’t bring a gift. Presence is worth so much more than presents. At the very least RSVP, whether it’s a yes or no. It literally translates to  “respond, please.”

Annnd, on a lighter note: It’s Derby week! The parentals fly in later this week, which should boost moods all around! Plus, I’ve got a delicious recipe lined up to share later on in the week!